Sometimes I have a hard time knowing what to say on here. There are so many mixed reactions to the method of treatment Wendy has chosen. So to begin with I just want to ask everyone to support her and trust that she has looked into everything available to her. Wendy has always taken perfect care of her body and considered everything she eats. She supplements with the most beneficial things; whole foods in many forms, essential oils, cleansing fasts and so on. She is still fervent in seeking ways to build herself up. So be sure she is well educated and discerning, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide her and Bill as she moves forward.
That being said, tomorrow she starts chemotherapy. For those of you who want to know, here it is:
Sixteen weeks of chemo every other week. The first four treatments are followed the next day by a shot that she will receive to help her bone marrow recover from the blast of chemo. She is expected to loose her hair and go through all the nasty stuff people usually go through. She is a bit overwhelmed at the thought of it all, not knowing how she will feel and what the side effects will be for her. I am praying that God will strengthen her beyond the normal and she will sail through this effortlessly.
After the chemo, she will have another surgery of her lymph's and either a lumpectomy or mastectomy. She is not quite sure where she will receive that yet and is considering a doctor in NYC before making a final decision. A lot will depend on how well the tumor shrinks after chemo.
After the surgery she will have six weeks of radiation. That will require a trip to Albany every week day.
When that is all done, she will have another surgery for reconstruction.
None of this is pleasant. She needs our support and prayers.
I am going to be doing another fundraiser for her. I am asking people to make pledges, my goal being $1000. Please inbox me at lauridatrianderson@yahoo.com if you are interested in making a pledge. Wendy will be shaving her head when the time comes and I will be shaving mine in support of her. That may sound extreme, but we have spent the last 23 years of our friendship doing everything together, down to having our last children 11 hours apart. As much as I don't want to be a baldy and see my grays for the first time, I want to do this to share in what she is going through and hope she draws strength from it.
So please continue to pray for her. She is afraid of what these next weeks hold for her. She is trusting God and I know she will come out the other side of this with a new outlook on life and a stronger relationship with our Savior. .
Thank you all so much. Remember to keep praying and visits, lunch dates and so on are welcome.
There are no words to say. We all know that God is in control and HE will be Wendy's strength. I believe and know in my heart that all of this is for HIS glory. My heart is in support of all you are doing Lauri and most of all in support of Wendy and Bill and their children. We love you guys!
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Dear Lauri, you are doing such a great job keeping us all up to date on Wendy. Thank you..though I never knew Wendy personally, I have her in my heart and in my prayers. Her journey will be known by all,"in God's fullness of time". Here on Apple Blm Ln..we expect great and mighty thing SHE knows NOT of! I pray as she reads Gods word, into her heart, his comfort and peace will sustain her. Our time is in the palm of his hand, nothing can take us out of his care. Be of good courage sister Wendy..God says..he will lead you and guide you in the way you should go..and council you with his eye upon you! For you are " The apple of his eye "
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Be encouraged in Jesus..hold fast, knowing your father in heaven loves you so!
To let everyone know, the comments are monitored before they are posted so you won't see them right away. If they are sort of addressed to me I haven't really been posting them. So many of you are commenting on me being "so good" to Wendy and I appreciate it but feel weird posting stuff like that so don't get upset if you don't see it.
ReplyDeleteOtherwise, be patient it will get posted.....LOL. Thank you so much to everyone being so supportive of her. I can't even tell you how blessed she and her family are.
So... Doing anything besides pledging for fund raiser. Head shaving for the highest bidder, perhaps? ;)
ReplyDeleteWell Bruce....if you are the highest bidder, will you shave? Better yet...would we notice? Haha.
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